Ya know, an old scandal/crush,( I don't even know how to categorize it) requested me as a friend on FB recently.
I know it had been years since we last talk but the last time we had our interaction, he left me with a bad taste in my mouth. And I DO NOT meant that literally. And to see that he also sent me a message with a jovial-like tone to it like nothing is wrong and not that he was a jerk to me, make me feels mad. I blogged about my last interaction with him somewhere in my blog. Back then, 'category/labels' had not been invented yet, (or I haven't start using it) so it is going to be time consuming digging through all the entries.
Anyway, I do not feel like adding him to my list of friends. However I hit the "Accept" button anyway. Or is it "confirm"? Can't really confirm since Facebook is block at the office.
But I am not worrying. I also know why I accept the request anyway.
1. I am curious what he is doing now and if he is married/engaged/single.
2. Curious what he looks like nowadays. And am feeling satisfied that we lost contact for a few years because he looks like a douche now. I may stand a jerk or a douche. But not both.
3. He would cease communication with me once he know that I am married.
So I believe that's that for this story.