Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Barely there

Minggu lepas my youngest brother sudah pon selamat menjadi suami orang. It felt so weird seeing my youngest brother who I still view as a kid now have a wife tobe responsible to and who knows maybe even a father next year.

So fast time flies.

Dengan itu the whole family went to Melaka ( wifenye org Melaka) for the majlis. Aku memula pening je nak bring kenit to the wedding. But it went ok.

Masa akad nikah tu is a bit tricky sebab time marhaban bising2, bergendang bagai boleh pulak kenit tdo dengan lenanye.




Tapi boleh pulak time akad tu he chose that time to wake up. Cepat2 la suakan susu before he start howling at the top of his lungs. Have to BF
him tengah2 itu with all the well meaning advice from makcik2 all around commenting why my baby is crying adakah sedikit stressful untuk ibunye. Anak nye bukan peduli asalkan got his milk.

But kenit dont make a scene, thank goodness, I bring my Chomel NC everywhere pon ( thanks Dila for the gift) so not much of a biggie to give kenit what he wants.

So my brother 5 kali kena ulang akad ni tak boleh nak attribute to kenit. Hehe.



But during reception tu I came prepared with a bottle pon tak jalan sebab the new maid tak reti on kenit way. Still mak die jugak kena handle. Bole aku makan lama2 kenit melahau sakan dalam rumah pengantin because he refused his bottle. Haish. The new maid tu adalah ( interrupted kejab post ni sbb aku bebel2 aku geram sebab die tidurkan baby without giving him a bath first ) mencabar kesabaran aku. Susah betul bile die nak ikut cara die and basically ignore my instructions sebab die rase die lagi tahu. Tapiiiiii... ini bukan post komplen pasal the new maid.

anywayyyyy... majlis at melaka was meriah and because I am busy with the baby I feel like I missed out on a lot of things... such as eating kat main table!!!. haha. But it went on splendidly despite me missing out on scrumptious dishes. Though I did asked my sedara mara to pass me the kuih muih to me a bit, so tadekla missed out much




Hari Ahad tu pon marked the end of my pantang dan terus ajeee aku celebrate dengan minum coconut shake Klebang.

Right now am at JB. Bile dah kat JB ni perasaan malas nak naik kerja tu lagi lipat ganda. Nak aje berenti, hantar balik the maid and jaga kenit dan kekucing.

Oh since I am gone ni ape jadi dengan kekucing? I asked someone to come to my home and bagi the cats makan and clean the litterbox. Risau jugak la, but the person tu suke kucing so ok je. I cant trust myself giving this task to people who dont like cats. Tadi die baru call cakap the kittens are ok, tapi Kurap stay perched on top of the pintu ( ade ruang di situ yang Kurap and Fasha like to climb on and perched tengok luar) tanak turun unless to eat and poop. Kesian Kurap. I think she missed me.


Tuesday, September 11, 2012

Alone then not alone

Husband gone back on Sunday. Sedih sekejab for obvs reason. 

Hari ni plak the new maid sudah sampai. Sebab itu lah aku boleh berbelog. Haha.. kalau tidak tak senang  duduk. It feels awkward to have a new person the house. Dah biasa sensorang dengan kekucing, takleh berbogel-bogel laie y'all... 

But it is a huge relief to have someone to help me clean the house and with the baby.  I found that if I duduk jalan lebih sikit my stitches macam sakit. So tak best la kan. So rumah memang macam tongkang pecah. Maid baru ni sampai siap tanye "akak baru pindah ke" . Aku dah 2 tahun lebih kut duduk rumah ni woiii... nampak benar penyepahnye dan tak reti mengemas. Hahaha. 

Ni maid ni sampai-sampai tak menyempat duk mengemas. Husband cakap, hari ni ye la rajin. Cuba next week. Husband I negatip sungguhh.. I also pon takdela nak kasik die kerja keras hari2. As long as the house looks presentable and most important baby aku ade orang jaga. In the mean time, I will take care of the baby dulu la. Kasik die settle in dulu. 

Alamak... nampak Ajis bukak mata. (ohh.. My boy name is Aziz, but panggey Ajis macam orang tua. Rupa cam orang tua pon, sentiasa sangat dahi tu kerut2 macam bapaknye). Die tengah duk layan perasaan dalam buai. I letak die berbuai siang2 sebab baru la bole lama sikit. Tadek la lama benar . Jarang la nak lebih 3 jam. Bile dah terbangun sebab lapar tu, akan scream his lung out jugak. But tadekla I have to be at his side, duk tepuk2 die sentiasa bile die terkejut or terbangun kejab. 

Malam ni problem. Mungkin problem sebab berbuai ke... tapi malam I adamant to not let him in buai. So sacrifice la mama die punye beauty sleep. He sleep 3 hour at most. Then lepas tu wake up every 1 hour. Itu pon kenkadang, he woke up and will only sleep 4 hours later! Fuhhh.. I never realized how much kesabaran can I have, but I guess being a mother surprise you kan. So I usually get only 2 hours of uninterrupted sleep, with 1 hour here and there during the night and day sometimes. Aku amaze at myself on how I can function. 

I foresee lots of coffee in my working days. Apelah lagi maid tu duduk mengemas. Kurap memula pemalu, duduk tepi aku je . The kittens ni curious tengok ade orang baru dalam rumah. Ni baru Kurap nak jenjalan balik dalam rumah. 


Wednesday, September 05, 2012

Update semua senang

Am so freaking tired. Am also annoyed at those momsies ( and dadsies) yang macam bile aku cakap aku tired or baby is cranky is acting like "I told you.." God. I know! I just want to complain ok. 

Also terasa macam akan selsema dan semput which is not good. But it haven't gone full blown yet. So here's hoping with lots of hot drinks I gonna be ok. That usually works. And a long deep sleep. Which is impossible. Haha. 

So update: 

Baby:
Kenit is now 1 month old. Hurray!

He is well.. suke mengempeng ek orang panggil. He likes to fall asleep on the breast. And if he is cranky he wants to be rock to sleep. All the time. Because I want to hold on to my sanity, I am borrowing my sister buaian. Sibuk la orang2 ni duk cakap " Nanti anak kau nak tidur berbuai jeee... nak pegi mana2 pon susah.." Helloo.. aku tahu la. I am not that dumb. But it is either that, or not bathe, or eat or live decently. Lagi-lagi aku kat rumah ni sensorang soon, mahu meroyan if I don't have any help. 

Currently trying to stock up on BM. I am not going to say much about this, because I try not to. . Let just say progress had been slow, but there is progress. I am not gonna be anal about BF. I try to do the best as I can. Selagi mampu, I will BF my child. If supplement is needed later on when the supply can't cope, I am not gonna go mental about it. But I personally still think if I BF or not, it is a private thing between my husband, me and my child. But that is also the question people kept on asking. The line of questioning will usually goes from gender to how you deliver the baby to if you are BF. While I am not annoyed by the question, it does get... tiring kut. 

Also during 31st August, my mom held cukur jambut at the JB house. It is a small affair, marhaban sikit, cukur rambut sampai botak by an Ustaz and makan-makan. My mom cooks for all the guests, all by herself and aku rase guilty kenot tolong because baby was acting up during the day before. However, on that day itself, selepas aku simpan stock susu banyak2 for baby during the majlis, he was well behaved not a cry was heard during the whole time. And he was awake from start to finish ok. Bile guest terakhir datang tengah makan baru lah die cranky sebab penat. Good boy. 

Nampak sungguh lahh baik tika ini kan.

Cats!
Kami sudah reunion balik semalam. Kurap memula buat dek jek kat aku, but then she started to warm up to me again. But she is still sad that she can't come into the room. Setiap kali she hears the bedroom door open, berlari-lari die naik trying to get in. 

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As for Bobby, he is all better. Before going back to JB, I noticed that Bobby was sick. Took him to the vet and found that he got a lung infection and was not eating. He stay at the vet for a while when we went to JB, about a week, but still not eating. Husband got back to KL and took him home and try to force feed him. 

It was a monumental task and husband was in a rage most of the time. Hehe. I understand though. It is really hardd to force feed a cat. So cuti raya tu we can't send Bobby to normal boarding, and we can't take care of him at JB. Hantar balik ke vet for treatment + boarding. So kiranye after about 2 weeks baru die start eating on his own. Fuh... takut aku kalau he still won't eat. 

Now he is eating as much as he can from all the other cats bowl, macam making up for lost time. Hoping he will gain his weight again, but he is eating and playing, so all is well, bak kate cite Hindustan. 

Bobby all better! Playing with husband. Walaupon husband emoism pon, Bobby is still his favorite. 
GollyWolly? 
Camtuh je la perangai nakalnye. Macam kitten on steroid. Selalu la nampak her flying here and there and everywhere and kacau kakak and abang die to distraction. 

Susah benar nak tangkap gambar critter sekor ni. 

During raya holiday tu hantar Kurap and Wolly boarding in 1 cage. So dalam 1 week plus to kena force live together, and bile balik major improvement. Sebelom ni Kurap selalu hissing and spitting bile Wolly is near, now Kurap boleh jilat2 die skali ok. Kurap jilat Bobby pon tak. Tadekla Kurap and Wolly BFFs, but Kurap can now get along with her reasonably well. Bile mood kurang elok je, Kurap will lash out. Contohnye bile Wolly menyibuk bile Kurap nak beramah mesra bersama tuannye. Haha. 

Ah well..  nak kejutkan si kenit tu untuk tukar pampers. 

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