I got no work. Its raining. I am cold. I am sitting next to the pantry where every footstep is a deafening noise.
I want to complain!!! Naturally.
Its about my wedding prep. And I promised I won't complain much after this. And I won't blog much about the wedding preparation. Biar surprise. Though I doubt it is much of a surprise to my friends who have to hear to the tiniest of details. Tima kasih la Sheema and Lini kerna slalu dengar aku bitchin regarding wedding preparation.
The money is pouring out. I am on a strict diet (but tidak makin kurus. Makin gemok adalah. Stress eating kut?) due to my lack of monetary funds. No money to buy fun things = Very Sad Dila. So quit asking me to belanja la. I might just bite your head off.
My fiance adalah cepat stress apabila I talk to him regarding need to call this or that or need to do this or that. Gah!
I loathe people who gives advice AFTER I made a decision. OR People who wanted to advise me on certain things when I had informed that I wanted this to be done a certain way. I am stubborn mule. No matter how lovely it looks to your eyes, I will cringe whenever I see it. My wedding. Kalo nak sangat that thing to be done your way of loveliness, then get married yourself.
I got a headache whenever I mentioned the color of my wedding. They will go like "eh?" "really ar" "not dull ke" or "what about this color". First of all. I had dead set on the color. Second of all. It can be anything. If people wanted to ask me regarding freaking color theme of my wedding or what color is certain thing going to be, I am going to say "UNITED COLOR OF BENETTON" . Anything goes. Ikut suke aku. Perlu ke aku ulang? MY FREAKING WEDDING.
Family members. I don't know how it happened. I think those who are married will completely understand. And for those yang single and planning to one day, let me warn eh.... things would not go your way at all. One day you are planning for this kind of flower, the next day 8 family members (directly related or 2 or 3 remove) will vetoed you of your decisions while you meekly sit at corner twiddling the tip of a cushion while nodding and murmuring in agreement. Takpe. Kalau anyone will bitch that may wedding is not that pretty.. I will just salahkan orang lain. Or maybe you yourself.
That paragraph above is a complete opposite to the paragraphs before that. Hence the stress blog posting.
Baru bulan 3. My wedding is on bulan 11 (dearest friends and acquaintances, please clear your schedule around November eh ). But OK. At least if I am stressing out so early, mungkin tak gelabah by bulan 10. Tidak?
I want to complain!!! Naturally.
Its about my wedding prep. And I promised I won't complain much after this. And I won't blog much about the wedding preparation. Biar surprise. Though I doubt it is much of a surprise to my friends who have to hear to the tiniest of details. Tima kasih la Sheema and Lini kerna slalu dengar aku bitchin regarding wedding preparation.
The money is pouring out. I am on a strict diet (but tidak makin kurus. Makin gemok adalah. Stress eating kut?) due to my lack of monetary funds. No money to buy fun things = Very Sad Dila. So quit asking me to belanja la. I might just bite your head off.
My fiance adalah cepat stress apabila I talk to him regarding need to call this or that or need to do this or that. Gah!
I loathe people who gives advice AFTER I made a decision. OR People who wanted to advise me on certain things when I had informed that I wanted this to be done a certain way. I am stubborn mule. No matter how lovely it looks to your eyes, I will cringe whenever I see it. My wedding. Kalo nak sangat that thing to be done your way of loveliness, then get married yourself.
I got a headache whenever I mentioned the color of my wedding. They will go like "eh?" "really ar" "not dull ke" or "what about this color". First of all. I had dead set on the color. Second of all. It can be anything. If people wanted to ask me regarding freaking color theme of my wedding or what color is certain thing going to be, I am going to say "UNITED COLOR OF BENETTON" . Anything goes. Ikut suke aku. Perlu ke aku ulang? MY FREAKING WEDDING.
Family members. I don't know how it happened. I think those who are married will completely understand. And for those yang single and planning to one day, let me warn eh.... things would not go your way at all. One day you are planning for this kind of flower, the next day 8 family members (directly related or 2 or 3 remove) will vetoed you of your decisions while you meekly sit at corner twiddling the tip of a cushion while nodding and murmuring in agreement. Takpe. Kalau anyone will bitch that may wedding is not that pretty.. I will just salahkan orang lain. Or maybe you yourself.
That paragraph above is a complete opposite to the paragraphs before that. Hence the stress blog posting.
Baru bulan 3. My wedding is on bulan 11 (dearest friends and acquaintances, please clear your schedule around November eh ). But OK. At least if I am stressing out so early, mungkin tak gelabah by bulan 10. Tidak?
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It is only fun when you're the tok kadhi (yup, the kadhi IS the real VIP here) or you're the best friend of the bride/groom's grandma and you've got an embarrassing gossip about the groom's grandma's first born grandson.
Having said that, I'll need to point out that a wedding's real fun-ness for most of the people on the first paragraph, lies mostly during either at the end of the wedding or at the extreme beginning of the preparation, when it seems the most like a dream come true (before all those expectations come crashing in).
So dils, sorry to hear that your wedding is in november. Arr! I remember myself during those days. Tossing and turning in bed thinking about the virtues of eloping with my fiancee to siam.
Because now start the worrying if things are going to go ok and all the very boring details.
next thing you know its actually akad nikah.
that would be fun. that way you know those who came actually cares about you. but as you said. the wedding is not about you or what you want, it is always about sedara. mulut like tempayan busuk and start giving dumb suggestion when you specifically want things to be done your way. sheesh
i dread the day that i would get married. i hate weddings and i hate entertaining people. i just hate big parties period. i will be one sad and depressed groom when that day happened. stress? just thinking about the day (if it happens) makes my armpit sweat!
HAHAHA
"akak hang dah, hang bila lagi?"
"dah besaq dah anak pak ngah ni, makan apa sampai besaq camni?"
i hate it. period.
i always want garden wedding whereby only close family and friends attend the wedding. but my mom going to kill me for that.
and i preferred not to bersanding. i hate sitting there doing nothing. am i some zoo animal for display? uhh..i hate weddding. no wonder i rarely attend wedding ceremony, i hate to even be there.
can't malays make wedding much simpler? *sigh*
hahahah
dari komen mangi yg first igtkan die tanak dtg... so br lah takut nk jemput, huuhuh.. and then die bg la plak komen yg 2nd. Heeee..
insyaAllah, will be there. :)
oh ye saya adik effi...dulu saya skula sigs...hehe..
ps::selamat buat prep kawen...ada byk masa lagi...peace!
ituler.. tak sempat gi kenduri marquis.. takpele
anasdila:
Hahaha.. kite mcm particular, but tadekle kisah sgt since wedding tu ekceli lebey pada famili pon. Just takut lain betul ke dari yg suke.
Huhuh.. kalo ikut suke mcm stail mat salleh tu atas cruise kaa.. haha, or very simple garden wedding ke.. tp ... bak kate mangi ape plak famili ckp kalo ade yg tak terjemput .. huhu
thanks!
p/s: saya dulu skolah BBU :P
Haha.. poetic stuffs!
Anony:
United Color of Benetton. No defining 1 color. Tak kisah lah mcm mane