What is it ? Is it a bug? A virus? A trend suddenly catching up? People are ignoring other reason unknown as rampant as leggings on celebrities today.
I was asked by a person , heh, (don't want to put name la here) what make a guy ignored a girl. One day he can oh so lovey dovey and all. The next day , *poof*. He will disappear into thin air that you are suddenly thinking; are you not dreaming of that moment with him yesterday.
I also find out that this do not just happens to guy. Or girl. Guys too have this moment. One day, everything seems fine, he think it is fine. The next day, the girl won't pick up the sms, call him back or admit that he exist in the same planet as her.
People kept on asking why, why? We human are equipped with a brain and intelligence that we could not let this matter rest. What? I slurped my coffee too loudly? I laughed like a hyenas? I bored you to sleep? Or as one zany bachelorette put her view oh so clearly in public TV when she is not hand picked by the bachelor. "You don't find me attractive?, I'm too short?, I have small boobs?, what?"
Dating in the 20s. It just sucks. Girls are so.. lets get married, I wanna settle down period. Guys are like. Whoa~ I don't ask for it. I specifically said I don't want this kinda thing period. I might just get married suddenly. To get away from it all. Who who? Scott Speedman is still single since Ewan McGregor is married? Will ya take me?
Oh, I won't put my own experience here. The experience is too .... Let just say the wound still sting. I afraid I might lash out more than either of us could handle. So I just.. let it be.
I informed them. Let it be. Most probably they have someone else. If not, but they keep on playing that kinda game, for the heck of it , or as some idiot might say , the chase is gone so does the thrill and there goes the love. Or.. they are just idiot. Full Stop. I don't know. If I know, I would be writing another book " He/She is just not that into you. Part II: For the Real Dummies", be widely successful, live in a penthouse with an indoor swimming pool and puffing out cigars smoke to the face of my suitors.
It is just not worth it. Its not worth it if the people we thought we love don't give a damn of a time to think how we must have felt. So have fun. Be busy. Don't think about it. There are other decent people aplenty. All you need to do is dig 6 feet since they are all dead. Kidding. They ARE decent people. I am kinda decent. In an odd, slightly neurotic kinda way. So does, (counting with fingers on hand and wrinkling nose and forehead to think of other decent people).............
Right? Say I'm right.
But don't you wish you can just shake the truth out of them. Like a really stubborn pepper shaker. *shake* *shake*. Damnit. Out with it already.
p/s: dah apdet