Damn it! I mean... I put it right there in my wallet. And it is lost. That means.. I have to go back to office tomorrow (in my OFF DAY) so that I can open my locker and give my colleague his things since he was so lazy/forgetful to buy his own key. Hihihi.. trust a forgetful girl to keep your things.
Yesterday... was somewhat like fun to me. No wonder I lighten up. First during lunch, our trainer told us that we will be having dinner together at Madam's Kwan to celebrate our new manager arrival. Most of us then and there, were buzzing and saying they're not going since 1. Pay haven't came in yet 2. Madam's Kwan isn't somewhere you wanna eat at the end of the month. Then came another announcement. The company is paying ... Hurray! But it will at Sundanese. Damn. Becoz I was looking forward to Madam's Kwan. I had been to Sundanese before. Averagish food. Madam's Kwan... haven't been to yet. Later kut.
It was somehow kinda nice because it gave us a chance to get to know each other more outside of work. And surprise surprise, the time to let off some steam. I meant.. hey understandable. There are a few ppls in our midst that we can't stand and kinda nice to not keep it bottled up and as a mild way to say it "shared".
Then at dinner yesterday, the guys were discussing their girlfriends. Ah.. see. Guys do talk about girls animatedly. And they were complaining. One of them my friend Kev said "Women these days arrr. They called themselves independent woman. Then, flowers, present I give. Dinner I pay also. Even parking ticket 1 ringgit doesn't want to pay. Petrol money don't ask la kan. And then by the end of the night, they called themselves an independent woman."
I was laughing my head off. Because somewhat it is true. I am guilty of this sometimes!!! But hey.... my man (then) wanna treat me right, I am not complaining! But of course la, he cannot be the only one picking up the tab. Once in a while girls, go and buy your man an expensive dinner at an expensive restaurant too. He did that much to you, about 3 times more isn't it.
But not that the girls doesn't always wanna pick up the tab. Like me, I will felt like I was cheated and a fool, when I was spending so much for a guy yet he didn't even lift a finger to pay or help or somewhat makes me feel nicer in anyway. So sometimes, these kinda girls who was always wanting for their bfs to pay, may have some bad experience. And doesn't wanna feel like a fool anymore. But hey.. as for me.. If I see he was good to me anyway. I will be more than happy to keep him happy even if that means picking up the tab sometimes.
Yesterday... was somewhat like fun to me. No wonder I lighten up. First during lunch, our trainer told us that we will be having dinner together at Madam's Kwan to celebrate our new manager arrival. Most of us then and there, were buzzing and saying they're not going since 1. Pay haven't came in yet 2. Madam's Kwan isn't somewhere you wanna eat at the end of the month. Then came another announcement. The company is paying ... Hurray! But it will at Sundanese. Damn. Becoz I was looking forward to Madam's Kwan. I had been to Sundanese before. Averagish food. Madam's Kwan... haven't been to yet. Later kut.
It was somehow kinda nice because it gave us a chance to get to know each other more outside of work. And surprise surprise, the time to let off some steam. I meant.. hey understandable. There are a few ppls in our midst that we can't stand and kinda nice to not keep it bottled up and as a mild way to say it "shared".
Then at dinner yesterday, the guys were discussing their girlfriends. Ah.. see. Guys do talk about girls animatedly. And they were complaining. One of them my friend Kev said "Women these days arrr. They called themselves independent woman. Then, flowers, present I give. Dinner I pay also. Even parking ticket 1 ringgit doesn't want to pay. Petrol money don't ask la kan. And then by the end of the night, they called themselves an independent woman."
I was laughing my head off. Because somewhat it is true. I am guilty of this sometimes!!! But hey.... my man (then) wanna treat me right, I am not complaining! But of course la, he cannot be the only one picking up the tab. Once in a while girls, go and buy your man an expensive dinner at an expensive restaurant too. He did that much to you, about 3 times more isn't it.
But not that the girls doesn't always wanna pick up the tab. Like me, I will felt like I was cheated and a fool, when I was spending so much for a guy yet he didn't even lift a finger to pay or help or somewhat makes me feel nicer in anyway. So sometimes, these kinda girls who was always wanting for their bfs to pay, may have some bad experience. And doesn't wanna feel like a fool anymore. But hey.. as for me.. If I see he was good to me anyway. I will be more than happy to keep him happy even if that means picking up the tab sometimes.
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tolerence is the best way to survive in a relationship. also, when talk about money and spending thing, you need to consider the future. need more money to do the walimatulurus, hantaran and ams kahwin. so, better keep some money for future. investment for future is more important than now. will you agree with me, dils?
I don't know. I like it better when men pay! Ah.. I think I just heard skidding tyres there..
first time around here, read your entries back to a few months back and I have to say its quite interesting to read the trials and tribulations of the only rose amongst the many thorns in McAfee.
oh btw, its common for guys to lavish their girlfriends. its a way of showing affection without actually uttering the exact words. and i do believe girls like to be pampered, so there ya go.
anyway, nice blog here adilla, keep it up!
p/s: one of your favourite books is Memoirs of A Geisha, is it the same as Geisha of Gion Kobu?
Gals do like to pampered, but guys do moan a lot about it .. haha..
It is about a geisha from Gion, im not sure about the Kobu thing though.