A while back, I was walking at Midvalley Jusco looking for home things. As I type that, I felt like I am feeling old, where before this shopping meant shoes and clothes and bags and not pots and curtains and baking stuffs. I walked past a salesperson with a new trainee by her side and heard her said * " Kalau kakak yang macam ni, yang pakai tudung ni, ni Melayu ." She pointed at me. And I also thought ' Kakakkkkkkkkk'. ** " Haa, tulis tu... " She motioned to the new trainee to write this important point in the notepad that the trainee is holding. I wondered what he would really write down in his notepad, if it would be something like 'scarf', 'not so dark skin' = Malay. I wondered what he would make of my husband who have slant eyes, curly hair, fair skin = Chinese? Even though he's not. I wonder if we are so easily defined in a few points. I wondered too if he is Nepalese judging for his slightly dark skin, wavy hair and obv...