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The past request you as a friend

Ya know, an old scandal/crush,( I don't even know how to categorize it)  requested me as a friend on FB recently. 

I know it had been years since we last talk but the last time we had our interaction, he left me with a bad taste in my mouth. And I DO NOT meant that literally. And to see that he also sent me a message with a jovial-like tone to it like nothing is wrong and not that he was a jerk to me, make me feels mad. I blogged about my last interaction with him somewhere in my blog. Back then, 'category/labels' had not been invented yet, (or I haven't start using it) so it is going to be time consuming digging through all the entries.

Anyway, I do not feel like adding him to my list of friends. However I hit the "Accept" button anyway. Or is it "confirm"? Can't really confirm since Facebook is block at the office. 

But I am not worrying. I also know why I accept the request anyway. 

1. I am curious what he is doing now and if he is married/engaged/single.

2. Curious what he looks like nowadays. And am feeling satisfied that we lost contact for a few years because he looks like a douche now.  I may stand a jerk or a douche. But not both. 

3. He would cease communication with me once he know that I am married.

So I believe that's that for this story.
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Obefiend Weiland said…
old flames are like cancer

they could destabilize ur current rship

i declined all friend request from exes.
1:26 PM, March 11, 2010
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1:26 PM, March 11, 2010
Dils said…
heh, yeah. But I am not too worrying about destabilizing my current relationship for a few exes, because , hoh, because there's nothing to it anymore.

And I only open FB 5 mins a day, don't have the time. Haha.
1:26 PM, March 12, 2010
FrH said…
dila xpe since kau dah "ter"accept dia, n dia dah konfem jadik "fren" kau, so kau block laa dia utk segala mak nenek dlm fb .. hahaha! so xde la kejam sgt, at least u accpet him to appear on your friendlist ;)
4:44 PM, March 12, 2010
Dils said…
hahaha... betul gak. aku tak penah lagi block org dlm FB ni.
7:54 PM, March 13, 2010
Anasfadilah said…
adalah macam gatal jugak nak add exes,tapi fikir balik like effi said

old flames are like cancer

jadi tak lah saya bermain api

ada juga exes nak add saya,tapi malas la nak add,dah la tinggalkan aku,pegila mati..hahah

p/s::rasa macam ramai pulak ek ex aku neh..ceh.
10:43 PM, March 13, 2010
Dils said…
hahahah... actually betul jugak, di mana husband akan jadi suspicious. tapi slalunye kalo exes yang die slalu suspicious ni contact mengcontact, ku tunjuk kat die perbualan kami.

Tanak pulak la tetiba kena tuduh membuat perhubungan terlarang. Hahaha.
10:56 AM, March 15, 2010
Taqiyuddin said…
i don't have an ex. the only ex i had, i married her. so i guess its true then, exes can be quite destabilizing.. to the point of capsizing.
2:46 PM, March 19, 2010
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